Category: Tired Mommy’s Tales

Lug Love

See this cute guy?  This is Big Lug.

Big Lug

picture courtesy of Lansing Lugnuts

 

I fell in love with the guy who followed him around.

I grew up loving baseball. When I needed a summer job in 2000, I worked in various customer service roles for the Lansing Lugnuts minor league baseball team. I LOVED it!! I got to work outside and watch baseball games and got paid for it! Sah-weet!!!

In my 3rd season, I got the prestigious assignment of Elevator Attendant and yes, it was as exciting as it sounds. Basically, my job was to make sure that you did not go upstairs to the suite level unless you had a Suite ticket.  I know, it still sounds lame but I liked it.  I got to work with more of the front office staff, meet some of the Corporate sponsors and its ultimately how I met my husband.

One day I was guarding the Suite level with my life (or standing in the elevator bay desperate for someone to come through and save me from boredom), when in comes Big Lug to do his mascot appearances in the Suite Level.  But who was the cutie blonde guy behind him?

That’s when the season got much more interesting.  I looked forward to Big Lug’s trips down to the field – he & his attendant, Mr. Cutie Pie, had to come through my elevator bay to get there.  They had to cross my path to get up the Suite level or the Front Office.  I kept an eye for when they would walk along the concourse and passed my door.  Mr. Cutie Pie and I had exchanged hellos & smiles but had yet to have an actual conversation.

Until Mr. Cutie Pie had the misfortune of getting an eye infection which required him to wear his glasses to work that day.  I finally had an in to start a conversation!  Granted it was a lame conversation about glasses and eye infections but it was a conversation!!

From that point on, we were pretty inseparable.  We would flirt whenever we crossed paths.  Back then, the staff would all go back to “Bumpers”, where groups would hold parties, and have a drink or two.  Mr. Cutie Pie and I would usually find ourselves sitting together and he would walk me to my car.  He even persevered when the first two times he asked me out, I had prior commitments and had to say no.  (Thank you, Honey, for asking that third time!)

Believe me, if you had told me that 9 years later, I would have married that mascot attendant (who by the way, had a fair share of stints in the mascot costume himself!), moved to Houston  and have an adorable daughter with him, I don’t think I would have believed you.  But sometimes, love comes to you in the form a big purple dinosaur. Just not THAT purple dinosaur!

This post is linked to:

Mama’s Losin’ It

Working Mommy Wednesday – Advice for Going Back to Work

So, you’ve had some time at home with the new baby.  But unfortunately, in the US mothers don’t get much time to bond with baby before its time to get back to work.  Below are my tips to make it a little easier to make that transition.

If possible, do a dry run. Take the kiddo to daycare once or twice before you actually have to go back.  Hopefully by the time you really do have to go back, you’ve reduced the intensity of sobbing and can actually hold an intelligent  conversation. *wink, wink*

Get as much done at night as you can. The new morning routine will probably be pretty hectic so the best thing you can do is leave as little for morning as possible.  Pack up bottles, pumps, your lunch, Baby’s daycare bag, etc., pick out everyone’s clothes, set out breakfast items…anything that can be done a night-do it!  (I really should still be taking this advice!)

If you’ll be pumping, have an idea of what your pumping schedule will be and triple-check that you have all your parts.  Maybe even buy a couple extra set or two to have at work just in case.  My first day back I hadn’t gotten in touch with the lady who had the key to the Mommy Room so I ended up almost literally bursting and had to resort to using a conference room (with windows-eek!) when I finally couldn’t wait anymore.

Don’t feel bad calling to check on little one a couple times while you’re still getting used to it. Your daycare provider has seen lots of moms say good-bye to their little munchkins for the first time.  They will be more than happy to assure you that everything is fine and make sure you feel comfortable with Baby in her care.

Enlist Daddy to be your housework helper for awhile. I know that when I was having a hard time with leaving Brooke at school, it helped me immensely that Keith did the bulk of the housework so I could spend time nursing & cuddling before it was time to put Brooke to bed.

Know that it will get better. Before you know it, your kiddo will run off before you can even say good-bye.

Mommies who have been there, done that – any other advice you’d like to share?

This post is linked to Working Mommy Wednesday.