Tag: Marriage

11 Things about my Valentine

This is the 11th Valentine’s Day since I’ve met my hubby. So I will tell you 11 things I love about him…

I love…that he puts up with my procrastination, distractability and all my other ADD tendencies
I love…that he agrees to try ideas he initially thinks are crazy (cloth diapering, car seat guidelines, natural birth)
I love…that he so good at his job

Ticket guys hard at work at Texas Bowl 2007

I love…that he has the motivation and determination to get up and go the gym at 5:30 almost every morning
I love…the new muscles that come from said time at the gym *wink,wink*
I love…that he won a new Kindle Fire HD at his conference in California and is going to share with me!
I love…how he is crazy passionate and loyal to his sports teams

Doesn’t everyone do this??

I love…how he loves on Brooke and even took her on an awesome daddy/daughter trip last fall

Daddy/Daughter roadtrip included a Tigers game!! Complete with face painting, carousel ride and a lap around the bases!

I love…how he kept our household functioning when I was saddled with morning sickness
I love…how he is always WAY off when he tries to guess who actors/actresses are on TV and in movies

I love…that he brought me with him on this journey from Michigan to Houston to Knoxville, made me a wife and mommy and continues to make me love him more every day.

Love you baby!!

The Problem With Equal-Opportunity Chores

I’m very blessed to have a husband who doesn’t balk at the idea of throwing a load in the washer or cleaning up the kitchen after dinner. As a working mom, I’d be a wreck if housework wasn’t shared between us.

But there is a downside…

There will come a night when you clog up the sink. With food you’ve left in the fridge too long. And you’ll be up to your elbows in gross and struggling with pipes trying to fix it.

photo credit: spierzchala

In your frustration, you’ll be silently cursing your husband for leaving you with this “man’s job” while he’s in the bedroom.

Then you’ll remember that tonight that same husband did a load of laundry, emptied and loaded the dishwasher after dinner and vacuumed the majority of the floors in the house. And isn’t just vegging out and watching TV but actually folding laundry in the bedroom.

So you take your frustrations out on the stubborn pipe and it will finally come loose and you finish unclogging the stupid sink.

In the end you decide that being left with gross “man jobs” occasionally is worth it to have the support of a man who doesn’t bat an eye at “woman’s work” and does what he can to keep things running smoothly every day.

Do you ever find that you don’t always give your husband the credit he deserves for what he does? What has it taken for you to realize that you might be taking him for granted?